i’m not scared of lions, and tigers, or bears
but marriage…maybe
see…as a guy…I’m supposed to be afraid of marriage because of the whole committment thing…or the fact that i’ll be forced to be with the same chick…like…forever
honestly…that doesn’t bother me…
what does is the fear of being unhappily married. I realized recently that I actually know more unhappily married couples than happily married couples – when you pair that with the divorce rate in America – it makes me a little nervous to think about the day when I say I do…and wonder…will it last forever…and if it does…will I be happy forever?
So I’m not anti marriage per se…I’m def anti unhappily ever after.
I’m anti-unhappily ever after too!!!!! Relationships are what you make them. You can’t look to someone to make you happy. I think the mistake people make is going in with unrealistic expectations. Two flawed individuals cannot make a perfect couple – it’s just not possible.
My tip for a successful marriage – #1. prepare to be selfless (trust me – the rewards are endless) and #2. never expect more from a person than you yourself are willing to give.
*dropping the mic*